Grieving

Discussion in 'The Loafing Shed' started by 4horses, Jan 5, 2009.

  1. 4horses

    4horses New Member

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    This past 3 weeks have been incredibly hard. I have lost four people and an awesome cat. The last "dreaded call" I got was Saturday to tell me that my ex husband was dead. He was in a snowmobile head on collision with another couple in northern Wisconsin. All three died instantaniously. No, alcohol was not a factor, speed was. He was always such a daredevil and speed demon. I always said it wasn't "if" but when. And when is now and I still can't believe it.
    RIP Scott Sumoski you died way too young. :'(
     
  2. Michele

    Michele New Member

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    4 horses I am so sorry.
     

  3. Mass

    Mass Senior Member and Masscaster

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    Oh, I heard about that on the news...I'm so sorry.
     
  4. JenR

    JenR Formerly Underworld Queen

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    Take care 4horses; that's a rough go. :(
     
  5. Tbitt

    Tbitt Most beloved member of MW

    WOW!!

    How sad.

    I'm sorry to hear that you are having such a run of bad luck.

    I sure do hope that this turns around soon.
     
  6. AKPonygirl

    AKPonygirl New Member

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    Wow

    I am very sorry for your losses.. I had a year similar to that... I was told that when you lose so many people, in such a short time span, that you are close to.. that you should find a counselor and do some chatting with them for awhile.. so I did... and I am glad someone recommended it to me.
     
  7. Pixin

    Pixin New Member

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  8. Angellou

    Angellou Senior Member

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    So sorry for your loss.
     
  9. snaffle

    snaffle Guest

    My sympathies are with you
     
  10. poodlelover

    poodlelover Moderator

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    Very sorry for your losses. It seems many of us are having very hard times. Hugs to you.
     
  11. BUC

    BUC Administrator

    How tragic. Hugs to you.
     
  12. Imzadi

    Imzadi New Member

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    So sorry for all the hard times you are going through...
     
  13. Shell

    Shell New Member

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    Sorry for all your losses, especially in such a short amount of time :'(
     
  14. PT

    PT New Member

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    When it rains it pours, seriously. I'm very sorry for everything you're going through, and am sending some strength vibes for ya!
     
  15. 4horses

    4horses New Member

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    Thank you everyone for strength. Geeze what shock though. I will be going to my ex's wake on Sunday. I feel the need to say goodbye.
     
  16. tater883

    tater883 New Member

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    Sorry to hear that stay strong
     
  17. photofinish

    photofinish Senior Member

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    So sorry to hear! Hang in there.
     
  18. kats

    kats New Member

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    So sorry to hear.
     
  19. MyTeDun

    MyTeDun Senior Member

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    I'm so sorry to hear about your ex------ No matter what don't just stop talking about him, that is the worst way to live through this.
    Take care of yourself and lean on us if you need us