Sounds simple, but geez I've been going to her for 13 or 14 years. It started when she wouldn't cut my Son's hair like I requested... 3 times in a row! It's not like it's a tough request. He wears his hair longer, which is fine by me as long as it looks like a hair style and not just a mop that's grown out and someone forgot to cut. I hated the way it looked in the back... just looked grown out and weird. Told her to layer it, do something with it. Didn't happen. I think it's the fact that she's been out of school for 20 however many years and isn't up on things. Now I have asked her for help/ideas for my hair, what looks good with my face shape, etc.. .she has no help or suggestions. I know, it's my hair, my decision, but I've never met a beautician/cosmetologist/whatever you want to call them who didn't love to get ahold of someone that wanted a change. I think I'm leaving. Do I tell her, or just leave? I do run into her occasionally, and we are "friendly", not really friends as in we don't hang out. How would you handle it? I just don't want to hurt her feelings.